Responsibility

It is not even true that you are the cause of everything in your life. Rather, that you are the cause of everything in your life is a place to stand from which to view and deal with life – a place that exists solely as a matter of your choice.

The stand that one is cause in the matter is a declaration, not an assertion of fact. It simply says, “you can count on me (and, I can count on me) to look at and deal with life from the perspective of my being cause in the matter.”

When you have taken the stand (declared) that you are cause in the matter of your life, it means that you give up the right to assign cause to the circumstances, or to others, or to the waxing and waning of your state of mind – all of which, while undoubtedly soothing, leave you helpless (at the effect of). At the same time, when you see how this works it will be clear that taking this stand does not prevent you from holding others responsible.

Being cause in the matter does not mean that you are taking on the burden of, or that you will be praised for or blamed for anything in the matter. And, it does not mean that you won’t fail.

1 comment so far

  1. Michael Eisbrener on

    If I only got this out of my est/Landmark experience it would’ve been enough. This is the most empowering place to live from. My promises, especially to myself become a moment to moment inspiration standing in I am cause in the matter. Thank you.


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